The desire to be with more than one person in a relationship, is often a struggle for some. What's so wrong about softening the hard black-and-white shades of right-and-wrong, to softer gray-shaded areas? Sometimes our desire to share ourselves with more than one person, may seem harmless, and selfless; a natural thing to do. And the more, the merrier. However -- The individuals who are free with sharing their love, may not be so free with their significant-other reciprocating that type of behavior, if there is a double-standard. However -- if both parties have a mutual understanding, then the giving-and-receiving benefits of loving another, exemplifies the beauty and sensibleness of the freedom to love many; which may sound like a party to some; and a non-relationship to others.
Monday, March 3, 2014
Loving Another -- It's All About the Choice of Fidelity and Boundary Values
The video below, presents Restless Heart performing live at the Grand Ole Opry, the song titled: "Why Does It Have To Be Wrong Or Right" and that is the ultimate question, regarding fidelity in relationships.
The desire to be with more than one person in a relationship, is often a struggle for some. What's so wrong about softening the hard black-and-white shades of right-and-wrong, to softer gray-shaded areas? Sometimes our desire to share ourselves with more than one person, may seem harmless, and selfless; a natural thing to do. And the more, the merrier. However -- The individuals who are free with sharing their love, may not be so free with their significant-other reciprocating that type of behavior, if there is a double-standard. However -- if both parties have a mutual understanding, then the giving-and-receiving benefits of loving another, exemplifies the beauty and sensibleness of the freedom to love many; which may sound like a party to some; and a non-relationship to others.
The desire to be with more than one person in a relationship, is often a struggle for some. What's so wrong about softening the hard black-and-white shades of right-and-wrong, to softer gray-shaded areas? Sometimes our desire to share ourselves with more than one person, may seem harmless, and selfless; a natural thing to do. And the more, the merrier. However -- The individuals who are free with sharing their love, may not be so free with their significant-other reciprocating that type of behavior, if there is a double-standard. However -- if both parties have a mutual understanding, then the giving-and-receiving benefits of loving another, exemplifies the beauty and sensibleness of the freedom to love many; which may sound like a party to some; and a non-relationship to others.
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