Perhaps -- Continuously Thinking About Another Person Has It's Place for Reproductive Purposes

A one-track mind, maybe part of Nature's survival mechanism in relationship to hyper-focusing on someone to reproduce with. Kind of like the "honeymoon stage" when being in-love is part of the bonding for a full-bloomed romance, the one-track-mindness that happens when someone is romantically courting another, may be a very essential part of the desire to romantically bond for reproductive purposes and the survival mechanism for human beings, because (perhaps) the hyper-focus allows one of another person's desire, to be the focus of attraction for reproductive purposes. (And not necessarily the focus, related to an OCD condition.)

Trisha Yearwood sings "Thinkin' About You" -- which is a song, about an individual's continuous thoughts about another person.

"Soon" Can Be a Great Retort to Being Put On the Back-Burner for Commitment

Tanya Tucker in 1993 at the CMA sang "Soon", in which she expresses in a story about how the word "soon" can be given back as a clever retort to being put-on-the-back-burner for commitment. Tanya sings the song in a beautifully stunning performance, that shows-off her exquisite physique and just how gorgeous she is, in the 1993 video shown below.

Loving Another -- It's All About the Choice of Fidelity and Boundary Values

The video below, presents Restless Heart performing live at the Grand Ole Opry, the song titled: "Why Does It Have To Be Wrong Or Right" and that is the ultimate question, regarding fidelity in relationships.

The desire to be with more than one person in a relationship, is often a struggle for some. What's so wrong about softening the hard black-and-white shades of right-and-wrong, to softer gray-shaded areas? Sometimes our desire to share ourselves with more than one person, may seem harmless, and selfless; a natural thing to do. And the more, the merrier. However -- The individuals who are free with sharing their love, may not be so free with their significant-other reciprocating that type of behavior, if there is a double-standard. However -- if both parties have a mutual understanding, then the giving-and-receiving benefits of loving another, exemplifies the beauty and sensibleness of the freedom to love many; which may sound like a party to some; and a non-relationship to others.

Sara Evans Sings "Perfect" in a Relaxed and Upbeat Style

Sometimes the act of abandoning perfection as an absolute part of one's life, can create relaxed relationships that fit like the comfortable easiness of a pair of tattered jeans. Being a slave to perfection is futile, because there are not many things that are actually perfect and it can distract one from fully relaxing and enjoying life and relationships. Just being one's self and letting go of the need to be perfect, can be liberating and attractive.

Sara Evan sing "Perfect" -- a song about the coolness of letting go of trying to be perfect. 

Time is Ticking -- Is This Relationship Worth Slowing Me Down For?

To want someone to hurry-up, because you want them to slow you down (from leaving) in a relationship, is ironical. Appropriate, if you want them to show you that they think that there is a glimmer of hope for saving a relationship.

Sara Evans sings "Slow Me Down" -- in this beautiful video of her. The contrast of the lipstick shades, are as contrasting as the paradoxical (oxy-moron) request, that she sing about in "Slow Me Down".

A Perspective About the Honeymoon Stage and Carrie Underwood's Great Singing Pipes

The "honeymoon stage" of a romantic relationship is a delightful and endearing one. To be enthralled in each others affection for one another, is (from this perspective) a part of the bonding initiation. Once, you have developed the bond, after you are initiated and conditioned to one another --the intensity of the big-fuss and bright fireworks, sometimes fizzles-out; not completely out, but, it may dissipate to where you would like to be reminded of those outstanding romantic fireworks, that originally made you realize how amazing your relationship originally started-out as being.

The song titled "Remind Me", reminds me of how Carrie Underwood has an intense and beautiful set of singing pipes. You too, can appreciate that when you hear Brad Paisley sing Remind Me (Duet With Carrie Underwood) -- which lays out a situation about a couple wanting to be enthralled, and distracted by each others intense affections, once again in their relationship.

Martina Sings About What Depends on Going or Staying

A song about feeling closed out. Sometimes, in relationships, one party may see the other as being over-sensitive, and may have know idea as to why the other feels the way he or she does. They may dismiss the other persons feelings, in a narrow-minded heartless way. All the while, being the one who is actually insensitive in the relationship. 

Jerry Springer has a show that presents to us, a lot of relationships-gone-insensitive and dismissive. The couples are (typically) the individuals who are clueless, as to the feelings of their partners, who need to open up to their partners feelings, or leave.

Some people hear; but, how often do people care enough to consider the feelings of others to listen to them? Really listen?

Martini McBride sings about being blown off, closed off, and not heard, (ironically) in a song called Whatever You Say in which she belts-out a very emotional song, regarding: what depends on going, or staying.

A Song About Infidelity Times-Two, and the Lady In-Between

Kristen Kelly sings of the circumstance of having lost her (used to be) man, to a (used to be) female friend of hers. The song that she sings is: Ex-Old Man, and it is a very catchy tune, about a female who experiences a pair of cheaters (male and female), mutually cheating on her (with each other).

Typically, if an individual loses a lover because of someone that he or she does not know, comes into the picture, then heartbreak is typically difficult to bear. However, if an individual loses a lover because a close friend demonstrates infidelity, then you may imagine the grief.

However; in listening to the song that Kristen Kelly sings, it looks like someone may have made 'minced-meat' out of probable grief; and may she be awarded 'great kudos' for that achievement!

If this song is about a true personal experience of the singer, it certainly turns adversity and loss, into an upbeat triumphing anthem for her (personally), as well as connecting others by (the song) being one of universal relativeness, for listeners who personally know of the 'double-wammy' heartbreak, of losing (two individuals) ~ a lover and a friend, because of 'double-infidelity'.

May the song be a spring-board for losing the grief, and gaining insight and freedom from relationships of infidelity.